Schedule

In this class about FemDom, I explain how our current society informs many of our kinks, how it’s a struggle for women to take back their power and choose to have the kinky fun they want, where they can finally be truly in control.

TRIGGER WARNING this class may have pictures and conversations that may make you uncomfortable. But to start making these changes we have to get a little uncomfortable first

In this class, we’re getting real about how Black and Brown folks navigate the kink scene. From breaking down stereotypes to addressing systemic barriers, we’re shining a light on the struggles and triumphs within our community. It’s time to ditch the taboos and have honest conversations. But it’s not all about the problems - we’re also about solutions. Let’s work together to create a kink space where everyone feels respected and celebrated. Join us and let’s make sure that Black and Brown lives truly matter in kink.

Playing with People of Color is about filling in some of the educational grey areas when it comes to POC in BDSM. This is not a racism 101 class but we will touch on how racism informs the reason why this class even exists. This class is definitely not exhaustive but it heavily pulls from our own experiences and the experiences of other POC and the things that need to include when presenters talk about BDSM such as:

• Lack of representation
• Lack of accessibility of spaces
• Isolationism
• The emotional labor expected from POC
• Micro-aggressions that are overlooked
• Racial Triggers
• Fetishism

If a hallmark of strong fiction is three-dimensional “complete” characters, then why should a character’s sex life be left off the page? Maybe it shouldn’t! A sex scene doesn’t have to be prurient, but it can illuminate a character or a relationship in ways that another scene couldn’t. Often, it’s the “missing piece” of a characterization or plot, but we may have been so trained to always keep sexual elements off the page or behind closed doors that as writers we don’t even realize it’s missing.

In this workshop we’ll explore the narrative language of sex and sexuality, identify and unpack sexual tropes, and go over ways to move past societal fears about talking about or showing sex in our fiction. The sex scene should ultimately be one of the colors available on the fiction writer’s palette, even if only sparingly used.

From the perspective of a White, transgender male Dominant and His Asian, nonbinary property, We will examine authority transfer dynamics through an Eastern and Western lens, discuss how we meld two cultures together, and offer an unique perspective on Western ideas of a “powerful slave” and “identity surrender”.

In this session we will explore how our understanding of sexual and kinky expression and gender identity is impacted by language and how this can limit or expand our experience in the scene. In addition, we will talk about how language can be used in a scene just like any other toy in our collection.

In this class, we will explore food as a tool both for intense control and surrender and for immense joy. We will build your kinky tool set by taking an in-depth look at three of the most common types of food play: wet and messy play (WAM), calorie control/body modification, and food service/presentation. As we explore these types of play we will learn different ways to cultivate power through food and examine language for the complex conversations this kind of play can entail. For many of us, food holds strong emotion and association. These can be warm feelings like nostalgia and comfort, traumas such as food insecurity or disordered eating, the exhausting love/hate of working in food service, or pride in stories of our ancestors and heritage. It is also simply an essential for human survival. Let’s explore how this unique genre of scene can serve our dynamics and enrich our lives. From a diversity and marginalization lens, food holds different stories for POC, low income populations, those of size, and many other marginalized groups. This class will address all of this alongside addressing the play itself.

We have a saying in this lifestyle, “Never say NEVER!” and if you remain in this lifestyle long enough, you may try many things that you thought that you never would. For many, one of the things that we enjoy is pushing the boundaries and exploring places that we would never want to go in the ‘real world’. We reach into ourselves, many times accessing our darker side and when we let that untamed side out; we find out much about who we are and those around us. Playing with “forbidden fruit” can be enlightening, enticing and it can also be debilitating, and dangerously detrimental if you’re not careful.This is very much a ‘stay in the moment’ type play and may be quite difficult for some to watch as well as quite surprising for those that are excited and fascinated by it. Come and delve into the realm of the things that make some squeamish and explore this type of play with me. Content Warning: the topic itself may be triggering since it involves play that my include race, religion, etc

A kink based health class centered around health and wellness for BDSM/Kink/Swing spaces, taught from a healthcare professional point of view. This class will cover these BDSM HEALTH Basics Topics:

• How to assess for health safety of play partners and venues
• Medical Emergencies
• The 3 Types of Cleaning

Additionally, it is imparative to include the challenges faced by individuals from multiple marganilzed communities. This session, delivered by registered nurse, Nik Daring, offers firsthand knowledge of the intersecting challenges experienced by diverse, marginalized and minoritized individuals in kink and play spaces. Content Note: This class does not utilize medical images of blood, wounds or anything that could be deemed as gross or explicit

Within the kink community - and by virtue of our connections as marginalized individuals - our greatest supports often come from within. Self care as a concept is so important, but when we are often struggling to meet our basic needs, it can feel unreachable or even impossible. Let’s have a conversation about how we can mutually support and offer effective community care to others, and build greater strength and healing together.

This thought-provoking and informative class focuses on creating inclusive spaces within the realm of kink. It is designed for individuals passionate about fostering a safe and welcoming environment for all. The class offers valuable insights and practical strategies to promote inclusivity and diversity. Participants will explore the importance of understanding and respecting different identities, orientations, and experiences within the kink community. Topics covered include gender identity, sexual orientation, relationship dynamics, disability, and neurodiversity. By the end of the class, participants will have a deeper understanding of inclusivity in kink spaces and the knowledge and skills to actively create and maintain an inclusive environment. Join us in this transformative class to become an advocate for inclusivity, respect, and empowerment within your kink space

Join Mx. Dizzy in a thought-provoking class that explores the intersection of disability and the kink community. This transformative session encourages participants to discover their own disabled deviance within the realm of kink and learn how kink can empower individuals with disabilities through its customizable and adaptable nature. From pain management to social engagement; from confidence building to sensory exploration, kink offers unique avenues for autonomy. This class is a valuable resource for understanding disability and its relationship with kink; benefiting individuals with disabilities, their loved ones, and community leaders striving for inclusivity. Drawing from their personal journey since 2015, Mx. Dizzy brings firsthand experience and knowledge to enrich the learning process. Gain insights and practical strategies to create a more supportive and inclusive environment.

Animal Role Play can be a vehicle for stress relief, structure, silliness, and more - but it can also be a powerful means of exploring and validating the diverse, often-fluid fabrics of gender and sexuality. In this class, we’ll take a deep dive into how animal role play can relate to gender and sexuality - finding your animal headspace/s, solo play self-connection techniques, centering validation in our scenes and dynamics, negotiation tips, identity exploration/validation for Handlers, and more. Discussion is encouraged to share our unique experiences. Let’s discover all the ways to help all animal role players feel empowered and seen.