Pathological demand avoidance is an extreme avoidance of every day demands. As a service submissive, it's expected of me to follow protocols and requests. So how do I manage both? Bratting, and you can too! Let's talk through how consensual bratting can create a safe dynamic for submissives or bottoms to say no or act out our PDA while also having a safe space to give into orders. I will walk you through what my PDA looks like, how I use bratting to unmask in a world where I am expected to follow through with orders all day. And how having the space to say no gives room for letting go and having the autonomy to do what is requested of you by your top.